Monday, September 13, 2010


Today, the sale of the house that I lived in with my ex was finally completed, funds transferred, 50/50.

This past month or so, I've spoken a couple of times and met up with the ex to sign paperwork relating to the sale.  The first time I met up with him was weird as I hadn't seen him in 2 years.

He's leaving the country with his money, going to work abroad.  He called asking if we could meet up before he goes but I wasn't sure I wanted to so I didn't change my plans.

I wished him all the best but didn't say what I really wanted to say because I could feel myself filling up a bit.  I had loved him and we were together for over 14 years - you can't just wipe this from memory.  He said that he still thought a lot of me (or words to that effect) - the feeling is mutual.

Thus ends a chapter of my life, with some sense of relief that I finally have some closure but also with a hint of sadness.

1 comment:

  1. Aw I think that is a good therapeutic way to feel. At least you did have the chance to meet up at the same time as tying up all the loose ends.

    And congratulations on your Bloggiversary. Six years? Wow that is amazing. You must have been right there at the beginning when blogs first existed.